Posted by: glorifyhim1 | August 22, 2015

What Love Does

What Love Does

This week I enjoyed a Skype visit with our sweet grandson, Benji. When Benji is around, even on Skype, there is generally much fun and laughter. This call was no exception. We laughed as we watched his silly antics and listened to the endearing way he calls “P’Paw!” But the highlight of our Skype visit was a lively game of peek-a-boo.

My husband, daughter, and I were seated at the dining room table with the laptop on the table. While I don’t remember exactly how the game began, eventually Benji would point to one of us and say our name. At his command, that person would slide to the side – or in my case since I was in the middle I had to bend forward – out of the range of the camera. Then everyone would ask: “Where’s P’Paw? (or GaGa or Stacy). That person would then move back into the camera’s range and proclaim: “Here I am!”  Every single time, Benji would jump and then we’d all laugh. His enjoyment and laughter were contagious. Soon we were all laughing like a group of little kids. At one point, I remarked: “It’s funny what a two-year-old (he’s almost two) can get you to do!”

But isn’t that what love does? Doesn’t love earnestly care about and seek to satisfy the desires or needs of another? In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul describes both some of the things that love does and some of the things that love does not do. What does love do?

  • Love suffers long and is kind (v.4).
  • Love thinks no evil (v.5).
  • Love rejoices in the truth (v.6).
  • Love bears all things (v.7).
  • Love believes all things (v.7).
  • Love hopes all things (v.7).
  • Love endures all things (v.7).
  • Love never fails. (8).

What does love not do?

  • Love does not envy (v.4).
  • Love does not parade itself (v.4).
  • Love does not behave rudely (v.5).
  • Love does not seek its own (v.5).
  • Love is not provoked (v.5).
  • Love does not rejoice in iniquity (v.6).

The love described in these verses puts up with stuff, but stays kind. It tries to think the best of others, consistently giving others the benefit of the doubt instead of being easily provoked. This love doesn’t envy others or try to rise above others. Neither does it try to put down or run over others. This love is constantly seeking the best in and for others.

Oh, how I wish I could always love like that. Playing peek-a-boo with my grandson is an easy-to-do kind of love, but sometimes love is hard. How can we love when we are mistreated, hurt, laughed at, taunted, bullied, put down, or simply ignored? How do we love when love is hard?

We need look no further for our answer than to the example set by our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

“For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps: ‘Who committed no sin, nor was deceit found in His mouth;’ who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously; who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness—by whose stripes you were healed.”

(1 Peter 2:21-24)

That’s what true, honest, genuine love does! Jesus was scourged, stricken, taunted, mocked, and ridiculed. He suffered a cruel and agonizing death on a cross. Yet His cry from the cross was: “Father, forgive them, because they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). Jesus surrendered His “rights” and committed Himself to His Father, willingly giving Himself to forgive you and me and to heal us.

Love has a purpose. True, sacrificing love points others to the One who came to save, redeem, and heal. My feelings, thoughts, and attitudes really matter very little when it comes to someone coming to know Jesus Christ as their Savior and Lord. No, it may not always be easy, but the more I love Christ, walk with Him and keep His Word, Christ will make His home with me (see John 14:23-24). And as He lives in me, He can help me to love more and more like Him as His love flows through me to touch others. He can do the same for you, too. And just perhaps the joy we feel will resemble that lively peek-a-boo game that we played with Benji! That’s what love does!

“I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.”

(John 15:9-10).


Posted by: glorifyhim1 | August 11, 2015

A Yearning Heart

A Yearning Heart

Last week my husband and I joined our two daughters, our son and daughter-in-law, and our sweet little grandson, for a family vacation at the beach. For as long as I can remember, a true family vacation meant going to a beach somewhere. I have sweet memories of beach trips with my Mama, Daddy, and sister – even the one when our car broke down when we were only an hour or two from home. As we limped along to a repair shop to have it fixed, my sister and I were so afraid that Daddy would turn around and go back home. But, after waiting around for what seemed like forever, we finally pulled away from the garage and headed toward the beach! Knowing what I know now, I’m sure that Mama and Daddy wanted, needed, and even yearned for that vacation as much, if not even more, than us kids.

As a parent, I know how much my husband and I looked forward to those vacations. When the kids were small, it was a treat to spend so much time with them just having fun – with no work schedules or household chores to worry about. Likewise, it was fun to treat them to the little extras that our daily, tight budget didn’t always allow.

As the kids grew, I think I treasured family vacations even more. The kids were older, busier, and on the go. They were involved in church and school activities and spent time with friends. Family vacations were a time for all of us to slow down and enjoy time together.

And as we met together this year with our now grown children, I doubt that even they could fathom just how much we longed to spend time with them.

I wonder. Is that the way God yearns for us?

  • Does He yearn for time – sweet fellowship – with us?
  • Is He jealous of those things that we allow to crowd Him out?
  • Does He yearn to bless us?
  • Does He long for us to share our hearts, to talk with Him about our deepest disappointments as well as our most joyful moments?
  • Is He anxious for us to remember Him, that He is right there with us at all times?

Scripture affirms that God indeed yearns for His children – much more than we could ever comprehend. He loved us first (see 1 John 4:19). He sought Adam and Eve in the garden although He knew they had disobeyed Him (see Genesis 3:8-9). He sent His own Son to pay the penalty for our sin and to restore us to fellowship with Him (see John 3:16). Jesus came to find us and restore us. He, Himself, stated: “What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he loses one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost until he finds it?  And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing. And when he comes home, he calls together his friends and neighbors, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep which was lost!’” (Luke 15:4-6).

I am so thankful for the yearning heart of my God. I don’t understand it, but I am ever so grateful for His love, pursuit, and desire for me. I pray that I will learn to live in a constant awareness of His presence with me. May I surrender those things that I allow to come between me and my God and may I take everything to Him – my hopes and dreams, my worries and anxieties, my sorrows and my joys. And there, in the yearning heart of my God, may my own yearning heart find peace and rest! May that be your prayer, too!

“As the deer pants for the water brooks,
So pants my soul for You, O God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God”

(Psalm 42:1-2a).


Posted by: glorifyhim1 | July 25, 2015

God Is Enough!

God Is Enough!

This week I celebrated another birthday – my 63rd, to be specific. And I found myself thinking about those years and all the changes I’ve witnessed. I was born in 1952. People in the early 50’s were reeling from the horrors of World War II and facing the new fears of the Cold War as the ideologies of capitalism and communism fiercely clashed. There were fears of atomic and nuclear warfare that if unleashed would destroy our world. As a child I can remember hearing about fallout shelters, participating in duck and cover drills, and hearing air raid test sirens.

But also in the 1950’s, the polio vaccine was created and given to children in a massive trial. Segregation was ruled illegal in the United States. DNA was discovered and the Soviets launched the space age with the Satellite Sputnik. And, lest we forget, the 50’s also saw the first “Peanuts” comic strip, the opening of the first McDonald’s, the launch of Disneyland, and the opening of the Sound of Music on Broadway.

As I thought about the world I knew as a child and the world I know today, I found myself recalling Ecclesiastes 1:9: “That which has been is what will be, that which is done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun.” Today, I bemoan the fearful world we live in – the increased acts of terrorism, our fragile economic system, frightening new epidemics, and the challenges of unparalleled technological advances that have markedly changed the way we communicate, do business, and live. Yet, I tend to forget that the world I knew as a child was also a fearful, unpredictable place.

As a child, however, I was probably fairly oblivious to all those news items that may have perplexed and worried my parents. I‘m almost certain that I was more aware of the opening of the first McDonald’s where I lived than any of the more serious news items. You see, if something frightened me, I went to my parents. If I was worried about something, I went to my parents. My childlike faith believed that they could handle and do anything. I had no reason to fear.

Now, all of these years later, I realize that while my parents may not have had that kind of ability, there is still someone I can go to with all my fears and worries – and He is enough. The Apostle Paul tells us in 2 Corinthians 12 that he had pleaded with God to remove a “thorn in the flesh.” Paul relayed: “And He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness’” (2 Corinthians 12:9a). God’s grace is sufficient for whatever we need. While Paul’s thorn was not removed, he still gladly proclaimed: “Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me” (2 Corinthians 12:9b).

Paul had discovered that no matter his need or his weakness, God’s grace was sufficient. But how? How does God’s grace make a difference in my pain, my suffering, my loss, my need? Simply defined, grace as used in the New Testament focuses on salvation. It has been defined in the acrostic – God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense. As 2 Corinthians 5:21 states: “For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” Grace is God reaching out to man, to reconcile us to Himself. When we accept what Christ did for us, we receive grace and full access to the very riches of God. Among these riches are the following.

  • Access to God

We can go to God with any worry, problem, or fear just as a child, I ran to my parents.

“ Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us” (1 John 5:14).

  • God’s Presence

We are never alone. God is always with us.

“Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6).

  • God’s Help

God will strengthen us, help us, and uphold us whatever our need.

“Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand” (Isaiah 41:10).

  • God’s Comfort

We do not suffer alone.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3).

  • God’s Peace

We can have God’s peace even in the midst of a troubled world because of the hope we have in Him.

“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27)


Paul recognized that God’s grace was enough. Like Paul, we too can discover that when we are at our weakest, God’s strength is perfect. When we are all alone, afraid, filled with sorrow, troubled, worried, betrayed, ignored, misunderstood, hungry, tired, penniless, hurting, _________ (you fill in the blank). God’s grace is sufficient as we trust our need to Him. Yes, my friend, God is enough! In fact, He is more than enough!


“Whom have I in heaven but You?
And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You.
My flesh and my heart fail;
But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”

(Psalm 73:25-56)





Posted by: glorifyhim1 | July 18, 2015

Putting on the New

Putting on the New

When I was growing up in the 50’s and 60’s, we generally bought new clothes two times a year – before Easter and before school started in August. Mama made many of our clothes, but in the Spring and Fall we were treated to brand new, store-bought clothes and shoes. I can still remember my sister and I poring over the old Sears and Roebuck catalog trying to decide on the outfits we liked the best. I honestly feel that it was more fun searching the pages of that catalog then than it is traipsing through the shopping malls today.

But even more than the searching and dreaming was when the big box actually arrived. What fun tearing into the packages and trying on the new clothes. No worries if an item were a little too long or didn’t fit just right. Our dear Mama with her trusty old Singer sewing machine could take up, let out, and remedy most of our sizing mishaps. It was amazing how good those new clothes made us feel!

I thought about this memory just this week when I read the following Scripture.

“And that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:24).

Put on the new man! When we confess our sins and trust Jesus for our salvation, we are made new. As Paul also told the Corinthians: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new” (2 Corinthians 5:17). Believers are reconciled to God through Christ. They have the Holy Spirit living within them to help them them (John 14:16-26), to give discernment (1 John 4:1-6), to give understanding (1 Corinthians 2:12-13), and to bear fruits (Galatians 5:22,23). But far too often, at least in my own life, I fail to put on the new man. Instead, I give in to my old ways and attitudes.

When we surrender our lives to Christ, we are made new. We are fully equipped with all that we need to live for Him and bear witness to Him. Yet, as Paul reminded the Ephesians, we have to choose whether to put on the new or give in to the old. There are three things Paul told the Ephesians in order to put on the new man.

  • Do not walk like the world (Ephesians 4:17-19).
  • Put off their old ways (Ephesians 4:22).
  • Renew their minds (Ephesians 4:23).

Turn away, put off, and renew. That is how we put on the new and become the man or woman that God created us to be. This is how God works in us and transforms us to look more and more like His dear Son.

I can remember as a child when I got my new clothes, I didn’t want to wear my old clothes anymore. I liked my new clothes better. And I’m discovering that the more I turn away from things of the world, the more I put off my old ways, and the more I renew my mind by seeking God and listening to His Spirit, the more I want to put on the new and to allow God to make me more like Jesus. It really feels good taking off the old and putting on the new!



Posted by: glorifyhim1 | July 10, 2015

Knowing God

Knowing God


2015-07-03 10.38.27-2As most of you who know me, or have come to know something about me from reading this blog, I am a grandmother. I have two grandsons – Silas who is with Jesus and Benji who will be two years old in October. About two months ago, Benji had tubes put in his ears to help with the fluid build-up. Since having the tubes inserted, Benji can hear and discern sounds that were muffled and hard to distinguish prior to the surgery. Needless to say, his ability to imitate sounds and make words has mushroomed. He can say many words and names now – except for Gramma!

Benji says Pa Pa, Aunt Ta-cy (Stacy), and Aunt Ka-la (Karla), but when someone tells him to say Gramma, he just looks at me. “Maybe Gramma is just too hard for him to say,” my daughter-in-law suggested. She pointed to me and asked Benji: “Can you say Oma (German for Grandmother)?” Benji smiled broadly and said “Oma,” but although he could say it, apparently it didn’t mean Gramma to Benji. When someone would point to me and asked Benji who I was, he would still just look at me and smile.

“It’s okay,” I lied to my kids. But oh how much I wanted to know that Benji knew who I was, that he knew me by name. This past weekend Benji came to visit again. My son and daughter-in-law told me that he had been saying Pa Pa and Ga Ga all the way there. Could Ga Ga be Gramma to Benji? But, once again, when asked who I was, he just smiled.

But then earlier this week, my daughter-in-law texted me a picture of my sweet Benji. He was holding a cup koozie that I had given him from some leftover craft materials. She told me that Benji had found the koozie and asked: “Ga Ga?” Oh, how happy that made my heart! Benji did know me! And he knew me by my name.

As I thought about the joy of knowing that Benji knows me by name, I thought about my Heavenly Father. Surely, He, too, delights when His children know Him by name. The Scriptures reveal many names or titles for God. He is our Abba (Father) (Romans 8:15), God Almighty (Genesis 17:1-2; Revelations 1:8), our Refuge (Psalm 46:1), Shield (Psalm 3:3), and Strong Tower (Psalm 61:3). He is Yahweh (Lord) (Exodus 3:13-15), Master (Psalm 16:2), and Eternal God (Psalm 90:1-2). He is our Provider (Genesis 22:13-14; Philippians 4:19), Shepherd (Psalm 23), our Rock (Psalm 18:2) and our Peace (Judges 6:24)! Each of these names, and many, many more that are contained in Scripture, help us to know our Heavenly Father and gain a deeper understanding of who He is.

As I thought about all the different names for God and what they teach us about who He is, I am reminded that more than knowing His name, God wants us to know Him! The different names and titles for God in Scripture reveal His nature and character and help us to know Him better.

You see, as much as I want to hear Benji call me by name, I want much more for him to know me. I want my name to mean something to him. I want him to smile as he thinks about Ga Ga. I want Ga Ga to remind him of a safe and happy place, hugs and kisses, silly songs and games, walks to the creek, a soft lap and a good book.

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And, somehow, I feel that God wants something similar from His children as well. When I whisper God’s name, does it make me smile just thinking about Him and all He is to me – His love and goodness; His mercy, forgiveness, and grace; and His faithfulness to me? When I hear His name am I reminded of the joy I feel in His presence? Just as Benji’s koozie reminds him of Ga Ga, am I daily reminded of God’s love and faithfulness in my life?  What joy to not only know my God’s name, but to truly know Him!


Thus says the Lord:

‘Let not the wise man glory in his wisdom,
Let not the mighty man glory in his might,
Nor let the rich man glory in his riches;
But let him who glories glory in this,
That he understands and knows Me,
That I am the Lord, exercising lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness in the earth.
For in these I delight,’ says the Lord.”

(Jeremiah 9-23-24)





Posted by: glorifyhim1 | June 28, 2015

Of High Court Decisions and Other Decisions

Of High Court Decisions and Other Decisions

On Friday the Supreme Court made a landmark decision that the Constitution guarantees a right to same-sex marriage. This decision is being applauded as a victory by some, cautiously accepted by others, and adamantly scorned by still others who hold fiercely to the belief that marriage should be between one man and one woman.

While I hold to the latter belief with all my heart, I realize that not all people, even of the same faith, subscribe to my beliefs on this subject. But rather than arguing or debating or trying to convince others of what I believe, I’d like to instead encourage all of us to consider decisions that each of us make every day. It is these decisions that ultimately determine how we look at life and how we choose to live life.

Every day we decide –

  • Who we will follow.

Do we follow our friends, people we admire, or idols that we cling to? Everybody follows somebody or something.

  • Who we will listen to.

Do we listen to those we follow, to prevailing thoughts and attitudes, or even to our own personal opinions? Whose voices do we allow to dominate our thinking and decision-making?

  • Who we will seek for guidance and understanding.

To whom do we go when we just don’t know? With so many competing voices, who do we trust to give us guidance and understanding?

  • Who we will obey.

Who or what governs my actions every day? Who do I obey?

In my own life, I know, without a doubt, who I want to follow, who I want to listen to, who I want to seek, and who I want to obey. It is my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Unfortunately, sometimes I fail. But when I come to Him and confess my sins, He is faithful to hear and forgive (see 1 John 1:9) and as I seek Him and listen to Him, He will help me….

  • To follow Him.

“Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, ‘I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life’” (John 8:12).

  • To listen to Him.

“My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me” (John 10:27).

  • To seek Him for guidance and understanding.

“Lead me in Your truth and teach me, For You are the God of my salvation; On You I wait all the day” (Psalm 25:5).

  • To obey Him.

“If you love me, keep my commandments” (John 14:15).

While you may not think that these everyday decisions have anything to do with the High Court’s decision, I think they have everything to do with it. No matter what side of the fence you may be on, just think if every one of us truly decided to follow Jesus, to listen to Him, to seek Him for guidance and understanding, and to obey Him, He would lead us in His way – not yours or mine. Just think of the difference it could make in our world, if just those who claim to be Christian would honestly spread out our questions, our differences of opinion before the Lord, and totally, completely seek to follow, listen, seek, and obey Him.  If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land” (2 Chronicles 7:14). My heart is broken over the state of our nation. Please join me in seeking Christ, turning from our wicked ways, and praying for the healing of our nation. Our seemingly little, every day decisions, are undoubtedly the most important decisions of all!



Posted by: glorifyhim1 | June 20, 2015

Another Father’s Day

Another Father’s Day

This is another Father’s Day without my Dad. He has been gone for 24 years and I still miss him. The following devotion, written four years ago, recalls a special memory I have of my Dad. I hope it blesses you as you think about your own Dad.

A Father’s Tears


This month I have faced life without my Dad for twenty years. Sometimes it feels like he cannot have possibly been gone that long. At other times, it seems forever since I’ve heard his coarse laugh and saw that familiar twinkle in his eyes. Some people say that time heals all wounds, but I’ve learned that healed wounds can often still leave scars. I think such is the case when someone we truly love dies. While we learn to go on after a loved one dies and the initial wound heals, there is forever a scar that marks our loss. That scar left on our hearts can still cause tears sometimes, but what is truly amazing is that same scar can also bring smiles. It may hide a painful loss, but it preserves so many precious and beautiful memories.


Usually on Father’s Day I think about my scar and I remember my Daddy. I think about his easy laughter, his joking and fun-loving nature. I think about things we did together as a family and recall many favorite memories. Yet this year I was reminded of something I didn’t see a lot from Daddy. I remembered a time when I saw Daddy’s tears. I can only recall my Daddy crying a handful of times. On this particular time I was in the hospital and had just given birth to my first child, a stillborn baby girl. Daddy sat beside my bed with my husband and me, trying to make small talk, trying to encourage, but ever so often his eyes would glisten with tears which he would quickly brush away. That memory has stayed with me through the years and today my scar reminded me of my Daddy’s tears.


As I thought about times that I had seen both my Daddy and my husband cry, it occurred to me that Dads cry pretty much for one reason. They’re not like most of the rest of us. Think about it. I can cry over anything at just about anytime. If someone snaps too harshly at me, I can cry. If someone makes a rude gesture to me while I’m driving, I can cry. I can cry over my kids’ problems and over the things that make them cry. I can cry over a picture on television of a malnourished third-world child. I can cry over a sad movie or book. I can cry when I don’t even know why I’m crying! But not so with most Dads. From what I’ve witnessed, Dads generally cry over something that they can’t fix.


Dads are fixers. They fix the car, the sink, the toilet. They provide the needed money. They work out solutions to problems. They love for their kids to ask them for advice. Dads seem to be happiest when they’re fixing things. But when they can’t fix what’s wrong, when they don’t have an answer to the problem, that’s when Dads are more likely to cry – or retreat so that you don’t see them cry.


For whatever reason, our Dads’ tears affect us immeasurably. In my Dad’s tears I saw strength, an immeasurable love that would have done anything in the world to fix my problem – if he only could. And today as I thought about my scar and the memory of my Daddy’s tears I was reminded of my Heavenly Father.


He, too, loves me with an immeasurable love. “In this the love God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins” (1 John 4:9-10). What God did for me I cannot explain, but He clearly demonstrated His love through Jesus and His work on the cross. Jesus showed us the love of the Father.


God’s love for us resulted in scars in the hands and feet of Jesus. I wonder what God thinks as He looks upon those scars after all these years. Does He sit beside Jesus and sadly think of the pain and suffering that Jesus endured? Or does He look at Jesus’ scars and smile as He thinks of you and me and the life that we can now have because of Christ? As God watches us struggle with pain and suffering, I wonder if he cries just as Jesus wept over the death of Lazarus (see John 11:33-35). As He looks upon our fallen world and the inhumanity of man to man, I wonder if He sheds tears just as Jesus cried over Jerusalem because of their rejection of Him and the coming judgment they faced (see Luke 19:41).


Just like our earthly fathers, I think that our Heavenly Father cries with us and for us. Hebrews 4:15 reminds us that Jesus is our High Priest who can sympathize with our weaknesses. He is not untouched by our problems, but understands the struggles and temptations we face living in a fallen world. He has the scars to prove it.


I wonder if this is the very reason that God planned for fathers. He wants them to stand in for Him in the home, defending and protecting, fixing and solving, loving and caring – revealing the Father’s love – perhaps sometimes even through a few tears. Thank You, Father; thank you, Daddy! I remember the scars.




I’ve been blessed to know quite a few amazing Dads – Granddads, uncles, other family members, as well as the Dad of my own children whom I share life with every day. My husband, too, is a “thing” fixer, an advice giver, and a problem solver. He loves not only with his heart, but also with his hands, as he consistently puts the wants and needs of others ahead of his own. And I’m seeing these same qualities emerge in our own son as about three years ago he, too, stepped into the role of fatherhood. Watching all these great Dads, even with their differing gifts and abilities, I’m a firm believer that if the Mom is the heart of the home, then the Dad is the glue that holds it all together. Yes, I definitely believe that God planned for fathers to defend, protect, fix and solve, love and care – and sometimes to just hold us and cry – to stand in His place revealing the Father’s awesome love for all His children. Take time this weekend to say thank you to the fathers in your life.

Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with love.”

(1 Corinthians 16:13-14)





Posted by: glorifyhim1 | June 8, 2015

Overflowing Joy

Overflowing Joy


Last week, I had the sweet privilege of helping care for my grandson who will be two years old in October. Benji is talking, walking, and full of life and energy. He loves to build towers and knock them down, dance to Kid Bop tunes on Pandora, and march and do the motions to childhood favorites such as “If You’re Happy and You Know It,” The Ants Go Marching,” “The Wheels on the Bus Go Round and Round,” and many, many more. Needless to say, Gramma sometimes has trouble keeping up!


One day last week as I sat on the floor playing with him, he hopped up, paused, and then exclaimed: “Oh, me!” I burst out laughing as I immediately knew that he was repeating what he had undoubtedly heard me say over and over again as I struggled to get up and down and keep up with him. He flashed a big smile and eagerly repeated: “Oh, me!”


Benji’s joy and love of life are contagious. I can’t be around him for every long without catching some of his joy. I’m reminded of Proverbs 17:22: “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” I received some very good medicine last week as Benji’s happiness and joy rubbed off on me.


But this week as I get back home with work to do and deadlines to meet, I find myself wondering about my measure of joy. Is the joy in my heart like a good medicine? Does it bubble up, overflow, and rub off on others? Or instead, do I allow my responsibilities, worries or problems to crush my spirit as well as the spirits of others?


Believers in Christ should be the most joyous of all people – because of the source of our joy. As the prophet Isaiah reminds us: “I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels” (Isaiah 61:10). The believer’s joy is in the Lord Himself. Note that the prophet rejoices in my God and what He has done for him, personally. His delight and joy is in his personal relationship with God.


God, through Christ, has done for us what we could never do for ourselves. He has clothed us with the garments of salvation and covered us in robes of his righteousness. We are saved from our sin and adorned with the righteousness of Christ. Think of what it means to be adorned in His righteousness.



  • We are new creations. (See 2 Corinthians 5:17)
  • We are made righteous. (See 2 Corinthians 5:21)
  • We have peace with God. (See Romans 5:1)
  • We are accepted by God. (See Ephesians 1:6)
  • We can come confidently into God’s presence. (See Ephesians 3:12)



The believer’s joy is not dependent on situations or circumstances. It is grounded in the Lord and in our relationship with Him. While we surely cannot always be “happy,” as we delight ourselves in God and trust Him in every area of our lives, we can discover a deep, abiding peace and know an exceeding gladness because of what we have in Christ. This is the kind of joy that we can know even on our difficult or “Oh, me” kind of days. And, sometimes, this joy may just bubble up, overflow, and rub off on others!


“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!”

(Philippians 4:4)










Posted by: glorifyhim1 | May 23, 2015

What Really Matters

What Really Matters


Those of you who know me well know how much I love the stories in the New Testament about Mary and Martha. I realize that my love for these stories are probably because of how much and how many different ways my Heavenly Father has used them to speak to my heart over the years.


Particularly, I used to struggle with Jesus’ defense of Mary when she chose to sit at Jesus’ feet and listen to Him rather than help Martha in the kitchen. This story is recorded in Luke 10:38-42. I’ve been in the kitchen and felt the pressure over trying to get everything just right and have it all ready on time for special guests. I could identify with Martha’s concern as well as with her aggravation toward Mary. But, Jesus was looking at Mary’s heart and her desire to listen and learn from Him. As He told Martha: “Mary has chosen that good part.” In other words, Mary had chosen what really mattered.


I have come to realize that daily I make choices. They may not seem like big choices, but no matter how big or small, they have a way of reflecting what is truly on my heart, those things that really matter to me. Sometimes, my choices can reflect my need for some “heart work.” Perhaps, I’m more concerned with what other people think, or even what I think, rather than what God would have me do.” What does God see when He looks at my heart, today? I pray that my heart may be more like Mary’s heart and full of love for her Lord.


If you, like me, need to be reminded from time to time about pursuing what really matters, perhaps you would like to read the following re-post “Showing Love to God.”



Showing Love to God

Recently I was reading the Scripture passage in the book of Mark where Mary, the sister of Martha and Lazarus, took a very costly flask of spikenard, broke it, and poured the oil on the head of Jesus ( Mark 14:3-9). She was immediately criticized by others who witnessed her action. “Why was this fragrant oil wasted? For it might have been sold for more than three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” Jesus, however, quickly came to Mary’s defense. “But Jesus said, ‘Let her alone. Why do you trouble her? She has done a good work for Me. For you have the poor with you always, and whenever you wish you may do them good, but Me you do not have always. She has done what she could. She has come before hand to anoint My body for burial” (Mark 14:6-8). “She has done what she could.”

Jesus had previously come to Mary’s defense at another time. We read of this event in Luke 10:38-42. On this occasion Jesus was invited to the home of Mary and Martha. While Martha worked to prepare a meal, Mary sat at Jesus’ feet feasting on His every word. Finally, worn-out Martha complains to Jesus because Mary is not helping. “And Jesus answered and said to her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.’”

When reading both of these accounts, it is easy to join Martha and the others in criticizing Mary. After all, shouldn’t Mary join in and help Martha with all the work? And wouldn’t it be much better to sell the spikenard and use the money to help those in need than to pour it on Jesus’ head? But Jesus didn’t agree. Why? Because Jesus saw something that those present did not see. He saw Mary’s heart. He saw her hungering for His teaching, hanging on His every word. And He saw her loving Him with her whole heart as she poured the costly oil on His head. Perhaps she didn’t know what else to do to show Him her love – but she did what she could do.

As I thought about Mary and Jesus’ response to her actions, I thought about my own heart. Do I hunger for His Word and long to know Him better? Or do I allow the distractions of my daily activities to interfere with my time with Him? Am I eager to express my love for Him in whatever way I can? Or do I feel that what I have to offer is not good enough, or perhaps too good, or maybe it’s not like what everyone else is offering. What does Jesus see when He looks at my heart? Would He defend me for choosing the right thing and for doing what I can to show my love for Him?

Sometimes we forget that God is more concerned with our relationship with Him than with the things we do for Him. The first four commandments deal with our relationship with God. When Jesus was asked to name the first commandment, He summarized the first four commandments in His reply. “The first of all the commandments is: ‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment” (Mark 12:29-30).  When we love God in this way, like Mary, we’re going to worship, praise, and adore Him in ways that others sometimes may not understand. Likewise, such love will naturally overflow to touch others, just as Jesus continued in His reply. “And the second [commandment], like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these” (Mark 12:31).

I know I love God with all my heart, but do I really love Him with all my mind and all my strength? I want to show God I love Him, but sometimes the things I do look so pitifully small and such a poor expression of my love for Him. And then I’m reminded of Jesus’ reply on behalf of Mary. “She has done what she could.” God sees my heart just as He saw the heart of Mary. He sees the love and the “want to” even if what I do may seem small or even if it is questioned by others.

Years ago I received a handmade clay mug that one of my kids made at school. Although it was misshapen and really quite pitiful, I treasured that mug because my child had made it. It’s packed away now with some other treasured keepsakes, but every time I see it, I’m reminded of my child and smile over the work and effort put into that mug. I love that mug because I love my child. In much the same way, I’m sure that Jesus looks at things I do for Him. Sometimes He may be saddened because He sees my heart is not wholly committed to Him. Other times He may rejoice to see His child accomplish some great thing from a heart overflowing with love for Him. At still other times, He may smile as He sees my poor, pitiful efforts but a heart full of love. It is then that I can almost hear Him say: “Let her alone. She has done what she could!”


“As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love.

If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s

 commandments and abide in His love.”

(John 15:9-10)



Posted by: glorifyhim1 | May 16, 2015

A Gentle Answer

A Gentle Answer


Sometimes I get angry. The nightly news is generally full of stories that can make my blood boil in a minute, from grave injustices to abuse and murder. Just this week, in discussing one such story with a friend, I remarked: “Just give me a broom and introduce me to this person!”


Perhaps you’re like me. Sometimes you get so mad, you would just like to take the matter into your own hands and administer your own kind of justice. But, alas, I was immediately convicted of my justice-seeking attitude. As James reminds us so well: “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” (James 1:19-20, NIV).


God desires righteousness in your life and mine. This is not a righteousness that saves us, however. We are saved when we confess our sins, repent, and place our faith and trust in Christ. At that time, we are declared righteous as we are covered by the righteousness of Christ. But at that time also, the Holy Spirit comes to dwell within us and to work within us to convict and transform us and to continually help make us more righteous. Paul explained this to the Romans (see Romans 5:17-19). As believers are sensitive and yield to the Spirit’s guidance and work in their lives, they can become more righteous and will look more like Christ. This is the righteousness God desires.


Paul described characteristics of those believers who walk according to the Spirit’s guidance. “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23a). I don’t think my anger could fit into any of those characteristics. Sometimes, as believers, we forget that even when we’re right, there is also a right way to respond. Kindness and gentleness, love and goodness, the very nature of Christ needs to permeate all that we do. When we respond with anger and harshness, hate or ridicule, we not only make enemies of those who disagree with us, but we do so in the name of Christ. No matter how right we may be, our lack of kindness and caring does little to witness to someone who needs to know the loving, gracious, merciful Christ that we know.


Perhaps we, too, could use the reminder that Paul gave to Titus to give to the church that Paul had planted in Crete: “Remind them to be subject to rulers and authorities, to obey, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing all humility to all men” (Titus 3:1-2). Similarly, Paul taught Timothy: “Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will” (2 Timothy 2:23-26).


As believers in Christ, the way we respond to others reflects on our Savior and Lord. Responding to those who oppose us with gentleness and respect does not mean we turn away from the truth or forget who we are in Christ. Peter addressed this issue when he wrote: But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15).  When we respond with gentleness and respect, we help others not only hear what we have to say, but we demonstrate first-hand Christ’s unconditional love. And in the process, we just may have the opportunity to not just win an argument, but more importantly, to win a brother or sister for Christ. I think a gentle answer is worth it. Don’t you?


“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1).



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